Monday, July 18, 2011

Really need some relationship advice?

The good news is that you're only fifteen and you have a lot of time for love and heartbreak for the rest of your life. At fifteen, it's a little harder to meet guys, and actually have a conversation that holds their attention for more than two minutes. But you have the advantage that they are reaching the point in their lives that they would /love/ to meet some girls. Other than at school, where do people in your town hang out? If there's a mall close by, I would assume that several of them would be found there. Go into a music store (for example) and browse by some artists that you like; hopefully you'll find a guy you think is cute browsing around the same section. Strike up a conversation about a band or album. If you feel any sort of connection, ask him if he'd like to join you for a coffee or something to eat since you're "starving" you could even hint that you're hungry & hope that he asks you to join him. The reason that you probably don't know how to connect to a guy enough to feel cared about / care in return is probably due to the fact that you've just never had that "click" with someone.. no spark yet, no magic! You will know when you feel it, and you'll just have to allow yourself to open up. It will come natural to you when you're connecting with someone; you'll go through crazy emotions, you'll get butterflies, you'll be nervous, your heart will pound.. and those will be your clues. And you'll just be yourself, don't worry about behaving a certain way. Believe me, just be yourself, and go out and find where the people your age are, and you'll fall in-like with someone, and they'll do the same back. It might not be a day, it might not be a week, and it might not be a month.. but it will happen, you just have to be patient. Don't force yourself to care about someone when it doesn't feel right, or you may miss out on the one that does. (:

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